He never said he loves me, should I give the relationship more time?

similar to me and my bf even though me and you are a huge age diff apart, my boy calls me shortly because i told him i like calls from him but he never talks i hate it. anyway your question..if he's not saying i love you maybe he's just afraid of saying it if he doesn't mean it.. you don't wanna pressure him into saying it when he doesn't mean it cause if you two ever break up your gonna remember him saying that and be like wtf he said he loved me..so he could truly feel like he loves you just he's afraid to hurt you in the long run.. and about the girls..well you can't honestly say that YOU don't look or talk about other guys with you're girlfriends or anything..as long as he's not being dirty or talking lovie-dovie to them then its all innocent and you shouldn't let that bother you too much. and yes give the relationship more time but make sure you TALK to him about this i love you/ girls thing..its more important to talk to HIM than us strangers on here who don't know you from a hole in the wall. if you have all this floating around in your head with no sense of whats even going on in his,thats bad. hah, good luck.