phobic ones, is this how you see ity?

I don't really understand what you are trying to convey but I accept uality as something that exists. I don't believe that they choose it as a way of life, nor do I believe that they are being gay to annoy the rest of us. My next door neighbours are gay and are amongst the nicest people I know. Do I think it's natural? In think it's natural to them. It obviously doesn't follow the rules for life in terms of procreation and I am not in favour of gay parenting but why can't people just live and let live.